You know how a Mum, when she is relaxed, instinctively knows what her baby wants; I believe that depth of connection is always available to us, and not just to Mums. I think it’s because babies are pure energy and that is the only way they can communicate and Mums are totally focused on what their baby needs, and can tune into them innately – that’s when the magic begins.
Do you know your children can sense the mood you’re in before you enter a room? Similarly, have you noticed when you enter a room full of strangers you can feel comfortable or uncomfortable? If you’ve experienced someone saying “I was just thinking of that” or you have said it yourself, you have experienced that energy, it’s always there for you to access. Another often-used example is if the phone rings and it’s someone you haven’t seen or heard of for sometime but you’ve been thinking about them!! It is this ‘energy’, which has a huge impact on the quality of a connection between two people.
The biggest influence on your energy is how good you feel about yourself. When you’re happy and everything is going well you are giving off ‘good’ energy and the opposite is true. I’m sure you’ve noticed how when you feel good you drive through any challenges.
Talking about feelings, I’m reminded that when someone says something profound to me, or I say something profound, I get a tingling sensation and the more profound the bigger the tingle. Other people have different ‘sensing’ experiences; you just need to be aware of the possibility, and then explore how you connect energetically.
My latest book “How to be a Parent Champion and add magic to your family” encourages you to try different exercises to find how you connect energetically and how to get into your most resourceful state – at will. It can take some practice but I can absolutely guarantee you it’s worth it.
Our personal development approach is different from regular ‘parenting skills’ and how we accept that everyone has the answers they need inside. What is required is the powerful question to unlock the answer. I’ve noticed when I’m at my most resourceful and connected to someone I get a sense of what the next powerful question is – it’s a fantastic feeling.
When you are at your most resourceful and set the intention to connect with someone you will open up a whole new world of connections and possibilities!!! This is magic in action.
Remember the most exciting part of all this. You will be able to teach your children and particularly problem teens these fantastic skills and abilities, which will unlock a whole new world for them.