Stepping Stones School (SEN) – Hindhead
Ethos of Empowerment – pilot
I am Deputy Headteacher at an independent special school for children with mild disabilities and SEN. During the Spring and Summer Terms 2012 we ran the Ethos of Empowerment Pilot, a personal development programme working with pupils, parents and teachers together, in partnership with Every Family Matters (now Develop Your Child CIC).
Engagement levels: school
Running the Parent Champion (PC) courses has been a big commitment for the school as they were held during the school day and comprised of two groups of 8 x 2 hour weekly sessions, each attended by 2 staff.
The school had recently set up a Parent Teachers Forum with the aim of improving both communication and engagement with parents; the parent coaching project was initiated when parents, at the first meeting of the PTF, requested that the school run workshops that would help them support their children’s learning and well being. The Parent Champion course has enabled the school to respond to this request highly effectively and there was very positive appreciation by parents throughout its duration.
The PC course has provided the School with a practical and results-orientated strategy to improve parental engagement, strengthened by its thorough evaluative reports of measurable outcomes.
Unfortunately, two members of staff dropped out, both after four sessions and both attributing the pressure of their teaching commitments as their reason. They did remark on the value of teachers and parents being in the sessions together, giving them a better understanding of the particular experiences of the pupils and their parents, appreciating how this had built a closer bond between them. On reflection, it was concluded that their lack of commitment meant that the course was not valued highly enough by these teachers nor by the senior management staff who might have done more to encourage their participation; and the fault probably lies with the way it was introduced to them, highlighting this as an important factor for the success of the next course.
Including teachers in sessions with parents was an entirely new concept. By nature, coaching involves intimate revelations and honesty is paramount, as is the need to feel comfortable talking. One parent did raise this as an issue during the third session, but the majority of parents agreed its benefits and we continued. The class assistant who completed the course (and is now on a GTP) remarked:
“The PC course is already seeming to have a positive effect. Parents and teachers are able to communicate more effectively now that trusting relationships are growing within the groups. A fantastic tool for enabling a more inclusive school environment.”
In a dissertation she produced, as a study of the parent coaching project, she writes:
‘The outcome, of open and trusting relationships between parents and teachers, must be acknowledged as a substantial contribution to breaking down barriers to children’s learning. The participants reveal a connection with the other members of the course and by the nature of the revelations during the sessions, have come to a deeper understanding of their students’ social and academic learning contexts. Whilst this investigation is not able to produce quantifiable evidence of this, the qualitative references at least suggest the beginnings of a ‘genuine partnership’.
I wrote in a report to our trustees:
“I have to say that personally I have been overwhelmed by the response to this course and by the achievements of the individuals taking part. Obviously we would not have embarked on this programme unless we were convinced of its value to the school, but it has more than met my expectations. What we are creating here is open and trusting relationships between parents, teachers and pupils and I had not realised the potential of this until now. We are experiencing the benefits of this already and I feel excited about how this will contribute to our mission of unleashing the potential of our pupils still further.”
Comments from parents include:
“The course has given me time to think and reflect and have more energy to move forward. I feel a stronger bond with other parents and staff.”
“Good to feel we are striving together for the good of ourselves, our families and especially these students.”
Engagement levels: parents
We ran two courses at different times, both of which tied in with dropping off and picking up times, to ensure that as many parents as possible could attend: mornings at 9-11am and afternoons 1.30-3.30pm. An evening session was also offered (particularly to enable working fathers to attend) but we only had one person interested so it didn’t run.
Out of 22 families, 19 parents participated (18 mums, 1 dad), 12 completed the course and attained a certificate.
“The course has been extremely helpful to me at a very crucial time for my family.”
“I was at a very low ebb right at the beginning, wondering how on earth we would manage to help our daughter. The support provided not only by the course guidance, but also by the other parents in our group, were both key to me being able to embark on a new approach. It is still hard work staying on track, and it is all too easy to slip into old habits, but it is possible – and life-changing.”
“I have found the Parent Champion course very useful and as the weeks have gone on I have felt stronger and more in control of myself and home situations.”
“This is a great opportunity for all parents to take part.”
“So far the Parent Coaching course has dramatically enhanced my intuition within our family, and has led to a clarity of thought that, on many practical levels, has profoundly changed the way I have handled difficult and challenging situations.”
“What worked for me and my family is the recognition that small steps to problem solving work best and that a ‘fix-it’ approach just places intolerable stress on ones self and others.”
‘I feel more willing to learn from my mistakes and not focus on regret. I think I have been able to pass this philosophy onto my kids.”
Engagement levels pupils
The coaching sessions for the students were delivered as PSHE lessons during the Spring and Summer Term. These were of a more exploratory nature as the materials were being adapted from the PC materials and the actual course is being delivered next term, in full. However, pupils did experience progress in their personal development.
We are currently in the process of developing ways of measuring this progress but the following comments give an idea of what they achieved:
Pupil A stated “I feel less anxious about things now. I have become a lot more positive about going to school and actually enjoy it rather than dread it everyday. My family have noticed a real difference in my behaviour and are so pleased to see me happy again. I am doing things that I never thought I could.”
Pupil B stated that he felt that his mum had become more understanding since completing the Coaching course. “Mum used to shout a lot but now she stays much calmer and gives me, and her, time to cool down after a disagreement before we discuss things. I know things are my fault sometimes, and I know, now, that this makes mumupset and frustrated. I guess we have both learned how to deal with each other better, we can sort of put ourselves in each others shoes.”
Pupil C agreed with Pupil B with respect to his mum also seeming to be calmer, with less shouting, since the course. He also stated “Mum and I are doing more together since she attended the course and I am allowed to do more. I think I’ve changed a bit because I can now tell when mum is feeling sad or upset.”
Pupil D stated “I don’t think the Coaching has had any particular impact on myself, as I have always been a positive person. I have noticed, though, that since the Coaching course, mum has felt better and is more able to deal with my sister (Pupil D explained that his sister is not very confident and has some friendship issues at the mainstream school that she attends. This impacts on her behaviour at home.) Mum is calmer and my sister’s behaviour is now improving because of this, so I think Coaching is a good idea“.
Pupil E: “I have acknowledged more success than I have usually done. I have learnt that if you are more positive then more positive things happen to you. Other people have noticed my positivity and have an influence.”
Pupil F said (as far as I can recall): “You know the coaching we are doing in class, like you are doing with the parents, well I think its working because last night I only had to stay in my room for ten minutes, and then I came down and I was alright.”
No evaluative evidence was collected. However, in the School’s Ofsted Report (May 2012) it noted about the students:
‘They develop into confident and well-rounded young people with real enthusiasm for learning and school life and show exceptionally positive attitudes towards overcoming their disabilities. Consequently, their attendance is above average when medical treatments and illness are not counted.’
As explained above, the coaching sessions for the students were delivered as PSHE lessons and in the same Ofsted report, the inspector wrote about how the various aspects of the school’s curriculum “ are making significant contributions to students’ personal, social and health education (PSHE)”. Of course, the coaching sessions were a small part of the overall provision, but in a conversation I had with the inspector the content of the sessions were acknowledged as contributing in particular to “building self-esteem”.
Georgina Saralis Deputy Headteacher
Spires Academy – Sturry
We have been lucky enough to be part of the developmentofa coachingmodel to deliver a programme of personal empowerment to the heart of our school society. Although a very individualised approach, the essence and long lasting effects of this programme are like ripples of positivity that we have witnessed through noticeable improvements in family and school based life.
We initially identified a cohort of students in year 10 who were not achieving to their full potantial academically. The personal barriers to success ranged from internal school based factors, self confidence and external family based issues through to poor attendance issues.
We experienced a high take up from the identified students. They were given the option to participate after a introduction session which was supported by the Vice Principal. The programme lasted for a five week period (50 minutes a week).
The positive experience for all who engaged was apparent and the statistical evidence highlights:
- Of the original cohort 78% decided to proceed with the course after the initial introduction. The average attendance to each session was 72%. We considered this an impressive figure as two students were classified in the persistent non attendees category.
- 85% of the cohort felt that they had a part to play in coaching others and were keen to encourage others to have the same priviledge of experiencing the programme.
- Key comments from school staff included identifying increased engagement, attendance and happiness/enjoyment.
- Parents and carers of a number of the cohort outlined an increased confidence and a recognisable shift in the child’s positive involvement in family life.
- 78% of the students identified that the course was a positive experience and recognised changes in themselves that benefitted their lives (school and family).
- We received positive feedback from parents and school staff outlining that 85% of the cohort demonstrated noticeable positive change during the course and beyond.
- The students emphasised their own increase in happiness and positivity; 33% recognised an increase in positive behaviours and are continuing to experience this still.
We at the Academy believe we are at an exciting juncture where we have begun a journey to embed a coaching culture amongst our community and enhance the postivity for our students and families to optimise their full potential.
Mr A Young
Laleham Gap School (SEN) – Ramsgate
The School provides education for children with a complex range of needs, including speech, language and communication difficulties and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). The school is located in an area of high social deprivation and child poverty. All children have Statements of Special Educational Need or Education and Health Care Plans, and are placed at the school by the Local Education Authority.
We will create a supportive collaboration between the school, parents and students, by piloting coaching courses developed and delivered by Develop Your Child CIC. This innovative evidence based programme incorporates the best elements from coaching, emotional literacy, and mindfulness, which have been proven to bring about profound changes in participants, by empowering them to connect to their innate abilities and wisdom.
The project will deliver:
- An introduction to Develop Your Child’s coaching methodology (including mindfulness) for school staff
- A minimum of 2 teaching staff undertaking the “Teacher Personal Development” online course (with access to a pupils’ version of the programme)
- Ongoing engagement with parents, leading to an 8-week parent coaching course (to be repeated for a second group). This innovative course is evidence-based, having been independently evaluated by Canterbury Christ Church University over a 2-year period.
- A Champion from each group and each sector will be identified to receive additional training to enable them to cascade the approach.
- Continuing evaluation of impacts using questionnaires for teachers and parents and measures of students’ academic engagement and progress.
This work has the potential to change educational, emotional and mental health outcomes for our young people, who are particularly vulnerable due to their special needs, and the poverty in which many families live. It will also provide a pilot for a whole school coaching ethos to create independent living.
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Luton Road Junior School – Chatham
The Transition programme – pilot
An exciting new step by step programme that has been specifically designed for the challenging period of changing from Key Stage 2 to Key Stage 3.
The transition module originally devised by Alan Wilson enabled us to look more at the emotional support that could be offered to support our year six children and empower them to deal with potential difficulties that could arise when transferring to secondary School, providing them with life skills which would help them deal with any challenge that could arise and view them as positives rather than negative experiences.
All year six children took part in a five day input focusing on a range of skills e.g. power of thought, friendships, achievements, active listening etc and the impact of these sessions was considerable.
The results and comments made after the module was completed were excellent and the project was an outstanding success
The self esteem quiz completed at the start of each module was redone at the end of the module and the overwhelming results showed that children were more confident and happier about transition. 95% of children’s self esteem had increased which is a phenomenal increase.
At the end of each five day block children were asked to discuss and comment on how they found the module. Children were very keen to share their thoughts and ideas and children who normally were reluctant to speak offered their opinions and comments willingly. This in itself was a huge success.
All children commented on the fact that they felt more confident about transferring to their new school and comments made included:
“I am quite excited now about starting my new school…”
“I now know how I can make new friends, I was worried as I am the only one going to my new school but I know I will soon make friends.”
“It was really interesting finding out how you can tell if someone is really listening to you…”
“I never realised that you could make good things happen just by changing the way you think.”
“I really enjoyed finding out about how I can make things better for myself.”
“I really feel much more confident about leaving Luton now”
“It was an excellent course and I want to find out more now about the power of thought.”
Staff in year six felt that the feed back from the children was also very positive and the skills taught an excellent base for the children to leave Luton with.
This was a trial project and all staff felt that the skills taught need to be reinforced and certainly the project will become part of future year six programme of study in the summer term.
Aspects of the module will be reviewed in April to ensure the key skills are covered. Parents will also be asked to complete a comments sheet to ask their opinion of the module.
As a result of this very successful project we have recognised with the excellent support and commitment of Alan that this programme has been a very valuable and worthwhile exercise.
Since the project discussions have taken place with Alan to find a way of empowering all of our school children at an earlier time in their school life and as a result Alan has offered to come into school each Wednesday at the end of whole school assembly to speak to all children for 10 minutes about positive thinking, life skills etc.
Included in the resources was a parents guide to encourage parents to refresh the new skills during the summer holiday. We also discussed the potential of running the course again at the beginning of term at the new school.
A poem by Ellie
To help you move from one school to another
Rearranging us in to our new schools
Alan Wilson bought us this module
Now hopefully every one of us will make new friends
Starting at your new school saying
Is this it?
Transition teaches you how to move on and be confident about yourself and that
Its you controlling your behaviour nobody else
On your own you can make new friends and move on happily
No one should be on their own
YMCA Youth Club – Tovil
Goals setting and the buddy system – pilot
When Alan contacted us, out of the blue, suggesting that he had a life skills and coaching course for young people, we were not really sure what we were letting ourselves in for.
During the discussion we were interrupted by a 14 year old who had just been excluded from her art lessons for bad behaviour, it was one of her favourite subjects where she had high hopes of achieving a good GCSE.
Alan spontaneously slipped into ‘coach’ mode and encouraged her to find a strategy within herself to overcome this situation. It took two weeks but she successfully employed her strategy and returned to her art classes.
Witnessing this example was enough for us to realise we should give him, his life coaching ideas and strategies a trial. We had several meetings to create the format and style that would suit the young people and their environment. It was a trial that ran for 5 sessions.
We started with allowing them to create a dream of their goal and extend that, which enabled them to appreciate they could actually achieve more than they had originally thought. Another exercise enabled them to realise that they had already achieved things in their life successfully.
Other sessions included work that identified their own values and those of others around them, self-esteem and goal setting. The most exciting development sprung out of the group ethos – it was the Buddy System.
We did an exercise that identified how children learn and then we matched them up with a buddy with the same attributes. This was very interesting as it matched some unlikely candidates, it also had some very surprising results. For example a couple of children that would not normally talk to each other were deep in conversation and I heard one of them actually ‘coaching’ his colleague – it was fantastic. Also during other activities in the club the buddies were very protective of each other. The biggest benefit was that it carried outside the club and formed very solid companionships.
Overall we are very pleased with the results of this trial. I will definitely recommend we implement the programme and would have no hesitation in recommending one of Alan’s programmes.
Detached and Outreach Project
YMCA Youth Club
NB This review was based on the 5 session trial, the enhanced Buddy System programme now runs to a minimum of 8 sessions.
Palace Wood Junior School – Allington
The ‘Go for Goals’ Course:
Creating Confidence and Self-Esteem in Children
A partnership approach between Develop Your Child and Palace Wood Junior School. This course is an exciting initiative to help children set and achieve their own goals. Its objective is to increase confidence and self esteem in children and the first stage has just been completed at Palace Wood Junior School.
Mr Handy, HeadTeacher, explains ‘we spend our lives cramming information into children. This approach is completely different: we are asking the children what they think and want’. It started with a group of eight Year 4 pupils based on a model created by Mr Handy and Alan Wilson of Develop Your Child, who are sponsoring the project. Alan Wilson approached Mr Handy to pilot this project: as a parent he became aware of the impact increasing confidence and self esteem had on his own children’s learning capabilities. He applied his knowledge and professional skills, developed whilst working with adults, as a fully trained and accredited life coach and NLP Practitioner, to help pupils at the School.
Evaluation of the 6 week Pilot showed that firstly the children had difficulty in identifying and connecting with their emotions when they were successful in an outcome. So we had to create more exercises that helped them acknowledge their feelings and emotions.
Secondly the children could not define a goal for themselves at first, because their current life experiences were based mainly on achieving goals set by ‘grown ups’. ‘So we had to work a lot harder in helping the children to define a goal for themselves’ said Alan Wilson.
At the end of this first stage parents of participants were asked for their opinions of the project, via a questionnaire. Overall there were two main outcomes: one was that the children who spent the most time on homework and exercises linked to each session benefited the most. A parent wrote that his child wanted the sessions to last longer. The other key learning point was that children whose parents supported them on the follow up tasks benefited the most.
The majority of parents were very positive about the course with one parent saying ‘my daughter has really enjoyed doing this. I think it is a great way of encouraging children and making them more aware of where they are going in the future’.
Following this Pilot project minor amendments have been made. We hope it will become a ‘rolling course’ within the school. During this phase Mr Handy and Alan Wilson will be working with the children directly.
Their long-term aim, though, is that following coaching eventually the Year 6 pupils will be able to work with the younger children. Together they will create a supportive culture of children building each other’s confidence and self-esteem.
(NB This review was written in October 2002 when the course consisted of 6 sessions.)
‘Go for Goals’ course results
The following is a report from the Headteacher, Mr Handy, dated 10th December 2003. A group of 8 children were chosen to take part in the Go for Goals course in school during the early part of year 4 in the autumn term 2002.
The children selected were a mixture of those who had scored level 2C or 1 in the Key stage 1 SATs or those whose progress in year 3 was particularly low.
Using the points values for each National Curriculum Level the following averages have been achieved by the Go for Goals group and the year group as a whole.
All children in Year 4
Reading 3.3 – Maths 2.4
Go for Goals group
Reading 4.8 – Maths 3.0
Following the encouraging results from the first session we repeated the course with a different group of children but within the same criteria – scored level 2C or 1 in the Key stage 1 SATs or those whose progress in year 3 was particularly low. This was in the spring and early part of summer 2004 terms, and the following were the results:
All children in Year 4
Reading 2.7 – Maths 2.5
Go for Goals group
Reading 5.7 – Maths 3.1
The children were asked what benefits they attributed to the course and they reported the following:
• feeling more confident in ‘having a go’
• feeling better about making mistakes and learning from them
• sticking at a difficult task instead of giving up
• knowing what they wanted to be able to do
• feeling more able to ask for help
They particularly enjoyed the less formal atmosphere, sharing of experiences, goals and homework’s – they were even enthusiastic about doing the homework!